10 Ways to Channel Your Energy Towards New Relationships

“Energy flows where the attention goes” — Tony Robbins

I have never encountered so many beings in such a short period of time. For someone who frequently whined about time pressure and the struggle of finding new friends, connecting with so many incredible souls, is a delightful progression. It is refreshing. Ever since I positively shifted my thoughts and energy, random people have been coming into my life. I meet them in social gatherings, they reach out online, through mutual friends, in restaurants… from all over the place.

In the event that you work long hours, socializing may sound insane and you might consider mingling unfeasible. Moreover, you may feel as though you have no energy for bonding or could be under the impression that adhering to 2 or 3 friends is ample. However, this is a wrong notion.

We occasionally tend to cling to who we know most. I personally did not believe I needed change since my friends and I knew each other very well and we shared the same values and beliefs. I did not sense that I was missing out on anything. The issue with the same circle of friends is that while you share the same mindsets, in the course of time, you stop learning much from each other and you are stuck in the same routine. You share similar stories and discussions, invariable opinions and ideas and unchanged vibes.

I also found it challenging to accept the idea of meeting different people because I was trying to avoid the emotional risk of being let down or hurt. Now that I expanded my options and embraced change, I started inviting distinct momentum into my life which is uplifting.

Interactions are imperative for numerous reasons including improving our emotional wellbeing, gaining experience, and most importantly, having someone to rely on.

Each person we run into has an interesting story to share, which elicits us to view matters from a different perspective. Some stories we hear are inspiring. Others we meet are just easy going and fun to hang out with, and this is what we all need from time to time — a good laugh, a great time, and no strings attached.

It is not only about going out and having fun. It is certainly not about avoiding being alone either. Life is fun, fascinating, and worth exploring.

Social interactions will boost your intelligence and feed your brain with creative ideas. I believe that all the human beings around us are a true blessing. Yet, to get the best out of a relationship, drop the judgements and stereotyping and start appreciating what comes your way. People put in our paths may portray a whole new picture about life.

“Man is by nature a social animal whose inclination it is to live in the company of others” — Aristotle

Do not underestimate the power of social interaction and welcoming positive energy into your life. New relationships bring in new perceptions which can improve the way you see the world.

They do not all have to be extraordinary. You will in time find likeminded individuals you constantly aspired to meet.

If you want to widen your horizon and learn, start centering your energy on this goal and fixate on it. This is one way to channel your energy and attract the right people towards you. You ought to realize your clear goals to achieve what you want.

Align yourself with positive vibrations.

If you are ready for a positive change, I found the below approaches extremely valuable:

• To attract good energy, focus on the energy which you are radiating. The attitude you approach others with will reflect on you.
• Dodge the negative thinking. Allow positive thoughts to steer you.
• Stay away from negative influences and gloomy folks to begin creating the life you want.
• Expand your circle of friends. Aim to surround yourself with positive and intellectual characters.
• Be compassionate and kind towards yourself and others.
• Be grateful. Fill your life with appreciation. Think of your blessings and practice daily gratitude.
• Believe in yourself and what you can do. Be confident.
• Talk about your passions with others. Transforming your passion brings you happiness.
• Let go of all the expectations. Be flexible.
• Journal positive affirmation daily.

The best way to experience life is with a positive attitude. This propels you towards your bigger objectives. When you learn how to focus your energy on something you desire, great things will happen for you.